How to interest a guy by correspondence: useful tips

The age of technological progress leaves its mark on society. More and more people are registering in popular social communities such as VKontakte, Odnoklassniki, and Facebook. Millions of users around the world share photos, comment on posts, and repost. An important aspect of virtual communication is the ability to correctly teach yourself and express your own thoughts. Girls are racking their brains over how to interest the guy they like and not scare him off.

"I couldn't speak"

There is no need to check your phone every minute for fear of missing a call from your boyfriend.
On the contrary, you should play a little with a man and not pick up the phone for a couple of hours. However, it is absolutely important to follow the rules of this “game” and, after a long pause, call back yourself so that the gentleman is not offended that you are ignoring him. The mechanics of this psychological technique are simple. A man who couldn’t reach you begins to worry about you and, thus, an emotional attachment begins.

“He's worried. He thinks more and more about you. So he would have called you, talked to you, found out everything for himself and switched to his own affairs. But the conversation did not take place, and the man cannot let go of the situation and do his work. He is worried about the woman he likes. Plus there is throwing: “Where is she? Why is she silent? Maybe she’s with someone”... There is an emotional attachment, and the man swallows the “hook” more strongly,” states the psychologist.

At the same time, Elena Kuznetsova warns that this technique is good only in the first stages of building relationships, and should not be abused. A man will simply start asking you what time he can call you, since you are so busy, and the intrigue will disappear. In addition, if a girl suddenly does not pick up the phone at the designated time, this may have a bad effect on the further development of the relationship.

Common Mistakes

Often, if a girl meets a guy on Odnoklassniki, she ruins everything herself, making typical mistakes. How to save contacts when dating?

It is necessary to follow specific rules of communication in Odnoklassniki and other social networks. networks:

1. You can’t withdraw into yourself and be shy. When dating online, you need to regularly maintain a conversation.
2. Don't scold the guy for late answers. Besides the Internet, there is real life in which something happens. Just wait for the man to answer. And then the meeting is not far away.
3. Politeness is the main rule. It doesn't matter who took the first step forward. In any case, you need to thank for the wonderful time spent or help.
4. Don't be nervous. If a guy is online on one of the networks, but hasn’t responded for an hour, maybe he’s writing slowly or just busy.
5. You cannot use profanity. Many men will not be happy about such an acquaintance. Swearing doesn't make girls look good.
6. You need to write correctly. Reading messages with many errors is difficult and unpleasant.

Strengthening interest after meeting

1. You need to collect information about the guy you are interested in. To do this, you need to carefully consider his page on the Internet. At the same time, it is not so important to pay attention to where the person worked or studied, in particular due to the fact that this information may be fictitious. It is necessary to look at whether all the columns regarding his hobbies and preferences are filled out. Perhaps he is a secretive person, which is why he wrote almost nothing about himself. Perhaps he gave some information in a joking manner, and this indicates his good sense of humor. But if he has too much information, then this may indicate excessive talkativeness or a desire to draw attention to his person.
2. The next step is to look at the photos posted on his account. Thanks to their analysis, certain conclusions can be drawn. Pay attention to how many friends he has, how he spends his leisure time, are there any pictures in which he is alone? If his page is full of only selfies showing his torso, toned muscles or cute face, you need to understand that you are faced with a narcissist, possibly a narcissist. Do you need such a gentleman?
3. Now you need to pay attention to the “wall” of the page of the guy you are interested in. Analyze what statuses he posts, what music he listens to. It’s not scary if you have different musical tastes, it’s much worse if his wall is full of obscenity and curses. Also, looking at the “wall”, you can note what the young man is interested in. If there are a lot of screenshots of video games, then there are two explanations: either the guy has a gaming addiction, or he is an avid IT specialist. The presence of photographs of animals can indicate a sentimental, soft-hearted guy, especially if it shows his pet. If there are pictures of transport, bicycles, this indicates the dynamic temperament of the guy, his love of drive.
4. After studying the young man's page, consider yours. You must realize that, having started communication, the guy will definitely visit your page. Therefore, it is important that there is no unnecessary information on it, nothing indicating that you “suffer from lack of love” or “dream about having five children.”
5. Take care to select the right photos for your account. Among them there should not be those in which you turned out poorly; a lot of selfies are also unacceptable.
6. Now start communicating.

Not every man will show off his sympathy. A girl who feels love for a timid guy is not always sure that her feelings are mutual. It's better to find out right away whether your relationship has a future. You can be convinced of this without admitting your sympathy. You just need to take the advice of psychologists.

Try out a few techniques to help you attract a man.

• Give your partner freedom of action. Let the young man choose the topic of conversation. It will be good if your tastes coincide. This way, you can keep the conversation going by describing your personal experiences. If you have nothing in common, you will have to feign interest by asking leading questions and listening to your chosen one.

• Learn to flirt. A mysterious or playful look can attract a man's attention. Try not to be too open. Hint at rapprochement, but do not take active action. A young man who is interested in you will take the initiative. If you didn’t wait for the continuation of the novel, it’s better to forget your new acquaintance. Most likely he doesn't have feelings for you.
• Be interested in his hobbies. Find out what the young man prefers. Try to fill your meetings with activities that pique his interest. For example, if a man loves sports, go for a run. During such useful walks, many things can be discussed. And if you make them regular, your relationship will improve significantly.
• Don't be afraid to ask for help. If you work together with your chosen one, a simple request for help will help to establish contact. While the man is doing you a favor, you will start talking and will be able to get to know each other a little better. If communication brings you both a feeling of lightness and ease, the young man will want to talk to you again. Over time, you will establish friendships. But you shouldn't put pressure on your partner. A man will be against continuing the conversation if you immediately show sympathy, hinting at a desire to become closer.
• Show your best sides. If you show your reading, erudition, kindness or broad outlook in a dialogue, a man will be interested in you. Women who are not smart enough are chosen only by those who dream of manipulating their chosen ones or by young people who are unsure of their abilities. And girls who are rude and rude can only cause hostility.
• Watch your appearance. The peculiarity of male perception is that young people attach more importance to external data rather than to the inner world. But this does not mean that you should be the standard of beauty. Just take care of yourself, look neat. Try to find out from your chosen one what kind of girls he is attracted to, adjust your image to suit the man’s taste. Make sure that your image is not too vulgar. Do not wear a lot of makeup, avoid bright and flashy items of clothing. A too bold image will repel a man and make him think about promiscuity.

After you meet a man and get to know him a little better, you need to find out what he likes. It will be much easier to do this if the chosen one is in the same team as you (study, work).

Chat with the man's friends, find out what he is interested in. It will be much easier for you to establish contact if you mention during the conversation things that interest your lover.

Do you want a man to show you more attention? Use simple techniques:

• call the guy by name more often;
• refrain from criticizing your chosen one;
• say nice words, praise the man;
• reduce personal space, position yourself at a short distance from the interlocutor;
• ask for help even in easy matters;
• not only listen, but also express your opinion, show interest in the guy in communication, ask questions to keep the conversation going;
• flirt, gently hint that you are not against getting closer;
• do not impose, give the man a choice. Create the effect of aloofness by answering calls and messages less often. This will stir up interest in you.

Ask the man you like for help more often, even in simple matters.
There should be a taboo on late correspondence at the beginning of a relationship. Still, it is important to take care of your reputation. But as soon as the romance began to actively gain momentum, you can chat with your loved one until the morning. All this is appropriate. Nobody canceled romance.

Horoscope - attract a guy's attention by recognizing his zodiac sign

• Show Aries your confidence, and he is unlikely to let you go for long. This sign likes persistent and decisive women.
• Friendship and trust are important to Taurus. Become part of his inner circle.
• Geminis want to see proactive girls nearby. Feel free to take a step forward.
• If you invite a cancer to watch a movie on its territory, it will happily accept the offer. Men of this sign do not like noisy companies.
• Leos prefer women - leaders who will love and support all his hobbies. However, he will not tolerate a woman who is trying to show that she is better than him in many ways.
• Virgos like girls who are fashionable, neat, and organized. Stylish details and elegant accessories will help to attract the attention of such a man.
• Libra should be approached through a love of nature. Having common interests will earn you extra points.
• It is important for Scorpio to have an independent and independent young lady next to him. After all, it is precisely such women that attract Scorpio men. Act as if you don't need this person's support.
• Sagittarians are very sociable. They can be captivated by a cheerful smile and witty jokes.
• Capricorns love smart women. Show your intelligence, make him think and his thoughts will constantly return to your person.
• Aquarius is driven primarily by curiosity. Do not reveal your cards to him, fuel his desire to learn more about you.
• Pisces love the arts. Joint trips to concerts, theaters, and art museums will help you get closer.

What to write in correspondence on the Internet?

Have you found a promising young man on the Internet, but don’t know how to start a dialogue? What can you write to a stranger on VK who you like and are at a distance so that he becomes interested? What phrases can you use to start a correspondence conversation?

Try to follow a few rules, thanks to them you will arouse reciprocal sympathy and get only good impressions from communication.

Don’t try to be too intrusive by liking all the photos and posts on the VK wall of the guy you like. To hint at communication, just send a friend request, writing a phrase that can hook a young man. What questions can you ask by correspondence? For example, if you liked photos from your vacation, you can start a conversation using one of the options:

• Have you been to the place shown in the picture? Share your impressions, tell us that you would like to visit those lands again.
• Is this your first time seeing this area? Ask the man to talk about his travel experience, clarify some details, explaining that you want to go there.

In this case, you are only taking the first step. Whether to continue communication or not is the young man’s decision. But if you manage to interest your chosen one, he will not refuse to establish contact.

Do you want to meet someone you haven't met before? Don’t know anything about your new chosen one? Find out what he likes by studying your new friend's profile in detail:

• tastes in music can be found out by watching audio recordings;
• photographs will tell about your hobbies, which may show something related to fishing, sports, painting or other hobbies;
• You can form an opinion about a man’s social circle by checking his list of friends;
• You can find out about the interests of your chosen one by paying attention to the list of groups in which he is a member.

Many girls needlessly worry a lot before meeting a new person, since starting a correspondence with a guy is very easy. Follow simple rules:

• Make an original move. Don’t write a banal greeting and an invitation to get to know each other. Carefully study the man’s VKontakte profile, find out what he is interested in. In the first message, ask for advice or praise something. For example, he loves to take photographs. Admit that you have always dreamed of learning how to work with Photoshop and ask for advice.
• Exaggerate your interest in what the guy likes. We saw that he loves rock. Ask when a popular band's next concert is.
• Ask the right questions. They must concern the interests of the man. Consider the age of the interlocutor. If a guy is an adult, he's not interested in talking about GCSEs. It’s better to talk with him about the future, family, cars, work.

When choosing a topic and style of communication, be guided by the zodiac sign of the interlocutor.

If your relationship is just beginning, and only one or two dates have passed, you don’t need to hang out on your phone all day. SMS or Internet communication should be brief so as not to offend the interlocutor by “ignoring” it, but not drag on for two or three hours, otherwise you risk boring the man. Remember the fairy tales of Scheherazade: intrigue, and then tactfully end the dialogue so that the man is eager to continue communication, and in person.

In this case, Kuznetsova advises adapting to your partner and feeling him out. If a boyfriend asks about something, “introduces” the topic, just react - a woman should never pull the blanket over herself. If a lady has questions for a man, they need to be voiced, but be correct and in moderation.

But obvious signs that you need to quickly end the conversation can be the following: the man begins to answer dryly, or does not answer anything at all, but only sends emoticons. That is, there are no more words left, the interlocutor is on his last legs. It is better not to bring him to such a state and say goodbye as soon as the topics discussed have exhausted themselves.

“Long correspondence can negate the desire to meet a girl in person - if she is so tiring, even without being there, then what will happen on a date?” - says the psychologist.

How to continue correspondence to keep the interlocutor’s interest

Starting a correspondence is a simple task, but then it is much more difficult to maintain the interest of the interlocutor for a long time.

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Basic rules for developing dialogue:

1. First of all, it is necessary to create an atmosphere of easy communication: you cannot demand anything from a man by correspondence and ask him uncomfortable questions. You should not create the feeling that a woman needs something from him: you should not ask for gifts or constantly beg for any help. We need to joke more. At first, laugh off serious questions.
2. There is a list of questions that cannot be asked to a pen pal: “Where have you been?”, “Who were you with?”, “Why did you come back so late?”, “When will you write to me?”, “When will we meet?” etc. Men don’t like such questions, especially at the stage of meeting a woman.
3. It is important not to forget to monitor your speech, choose the right words and expressions so as not to frighten your interlocutor.
4. You cannot write messages that are too long, no more than 300 characters at a time.

To maintain long correspondence and mutual interest, it is important to feel balance in everything. You can’t seem too cold and at the same time force yourself on a man.

You should not use abstruse words or write long phrases; communication should be easy. It is necessary to show the man that the interlocutor does not pursue any selfish goals in communicating with him.

SMS or Internet correspondence should not take too much time

An open demonstration of your life kills intrigue and mystery. If at first a man may be interested in watching you, then pretty soon he will get bored, because he will know everything about you - what time you get up, how long you brush your teeth, what you eat for breakfast, and so on.

Another disadvantage of the “Internet demonstration” is that a man, after studying the photos, may consider your pastime empty and worthless: you drank coffee with one girlfriend, went shopping with another, met a third at the cinema. Plus, the fan may become jealous because you are not with him, but with your girlfriend, whom you see every day.

“By advertising your personal life on social networks, you give your partner more topics for reflection and dissatisfaction,” the psychologist concluded.

Emoticons are a great way to more accurately express your attitude to a situation, because it is not always clear through correspondence. However, you should not overuse “emotional symbols,” especially if your partner is reserved and does without them. Try to reduce emoticons to a minimum if you absolutely cannot live without them.

General rules

The reason for meeting a young man online can be a like on a photo, a nice comment, or a smiley face. If the guy answered them, you can write the first message. But we need to build the dialogue correctly. Follow the recommendations of experienced pickup artists:

• Be sure to greet the man. Make it casual and original. “Salute!”, Hi, I’ve never seen fish like those in your photo from the “Travel” album. Tell me.”
• Please wait for an answer. Let an hour or a day pass. If a man drags his feet with letters, also take a long pause.
• Ask what he does in life, what his interests are. Keep quiet about yourself for now, create intrigue. The guy will probably study your profile himself.
• Do not use complex, ornate syllables in your letters. Choose simple, easy vocabulary.
• Don't track your boyfriend's visits to the site. He may be in “Invisible” status and log into the messenger not only to communicate with you, but also with other users. Resentment due to silence at the initial stage of communication is inappropriate.
• Do not comment on all his posts, photos, videos. Assertive behavior will push a man away and he will feel an invasion of his personal space.
• Do not send pictures or videos in bulk. The male sex is annoyed by gifs and songs in personal messages. Although everyone has different tastes. If you feel that you can interest him in this way, use this method, just select photos and articles that will hook him.
• Think in advance about what to ask the guy in correspondence. Smart men ignore stupid questions. Study it, read the answers carefully, react to changes in tone and behavior.
• Act like a lady. Do not use slang, swear words, or vulgar jokes. Be careful with abbreviations and foreign words. “PZHL”, instead of please, computer, soap and so on make the speech rude, as if the dialogue is being conducted with a robot. Exude sensuality, emotion, tenderness.

Men love simplicity. They are attracted by easy communication, they feel that the woman wants to please. Keep it simple, don’t emphasize your superiority, then the guy will definitely want to continue communication at least at the level of friendship.

What to ask a guy you like: examples of questions

The easiest way is to send a message to the man you like, saying something like this: “Good afternoon, is your offer still valid? Then I’ll wait for you there at such and such time.” In theory, they will have to write you a reply SMS and clarify who it is. If not, then repeat the same thing as many times as necessary, the main thing is that you don’t write bad words.

Here are some more suitable phrases:

• "Hello! I see you studied at __ university. Do you happen to know (person's full name)? We were good friends with her and lost touch.” The answer to such a question will obviously be negative, but there will be a chance to continue communication.
• “Hi, do you remember me, we studied together at school No._? We’re going to an alumni meeting, if you’re interested, write to me.” Any normal person will definitely be curious about who is addressing him. And then you can say that you were mistaken and apologize. It may well be that this phrase will be the impetus for starting communication.
• "I agree". You should be asked what for, and you will ask what you can offer.

What question to ask and what to say to the man you like? There are several questions that can attract the attention of your chosen one:

1. Who would you like to work as?

2. What's the most thoughtless thing you've ever done?
3. What was the last time you were upset about?
4. How do you like to spend your weekends: active or passive?
5. What superpower have you always wanted to have?
6. Which person you know would you put in a mental hospital?
7. Which celebrity would you like to chat with in person?
8. If you had a million, what would you buy with that money?
9. Last thing you would do before you die?
10. If you were to make a movie, what would the plot be?
11. If you met a goldfish, what three wishes would you make?
12. Have you made decisions that had a bad impact on your life?
13. If you could be in another time, which century would you choose?
14. If you were allowed to commit any crime without having to serve a sentence for it, what would you do?
15. Would you agree to live your life again if you had the opportunity?

The main goal of correspondence with an unfamiliar guy on VK is to get to know him better as a person, to arouse interest in yourself. It is enough to use this set of interesting phrases:

1. What do you dream about?
2. Any brothers, sisters? What do they do, are you friends?
3. Do you have good memories of school and classmates?
4. What did you dream of becoming as a child?
5. Are you planning a family, children?
6. Favorite book, movie, musical group?
7. Are you into computer games?
8. Do you drive a car?
9. What can attract you in a girl, what can repel you?
10. Do you like to win the lady of your heart or do you prefer to be the “prey” yourself?
11. Do you often fall in love?
12. Do you believe in long distance relationships?
13. What dream did you have today?

There are several signals by which you can understand whether a young man is interested in a girl or not. Analyze his behavior, the content of SMS and the speed of response to letters. If you notice the following beacons, praise yourself, everything was done correctly:

• A man often logs into VK
• He himself makes an agreement with the girl about the next online meeting
• Is not late for the appointed time for correspondence
• Doesn’t say goodbye quickly, but delays communication
• Flirts constantly
• Openly shares information about himself: his life, interests, secrets
• Interested in stories from a girl's life
• Talks about the past day, incidents at work, at home, plans for tomorrow
• Wishes good morning, pleasant dreams, even if the interlocutor is offline
• Sends virtual gifts
• Accompany letters with pleasant emoticons and compliments
• Gives practical advice, delving into your problem in detail, tries to protect
• I took the phone number after a couple of days of dating. Note whether the guy is ready to share his secret, a part of his life. If the answers to the questions are monosyllabic, then it is too early to talk about obvious sympathy.

On a note! If a man constantly talks about himself, colorfully and in detail describes his work, day, meetings with friends, but is not at all interested in the life of a girl, he is just a narcissistic chatterbox. Don't waste your time on him.

Rule No. 6 Simple conventions

There are moments that fuel a man’s interest in corresponding with you. First of all, it’s attention to his life and the ability to present your own.

Learn to ask questions in correspondence that cannot be answered “Yes-No”. This way you will get food for thought.

Along with the answer, you will receive a question addressed to you and a chance to tell something exciting.

It is not at all necessary that the man be online when you write. You can make your good morning wishes traditional. A simple example: “Good morning! Have a good day! (smile).”

This is where you get creative: think of a more interesting way to wish you a good day and you will see the man’s reaction, something new every morning.

In the evening you can ask the opposite: “How was your day?” This question does not require a detailed report and the man will definitely answer something.

A separate issue is the duration of the correspondence. Don't stay online too long, especially at night. Lack of sleep does not make a woman happy and means that she has nothing to do in the evening.

It’s better to tell your man about how productively you spent your day, what interesting things happened in your life, what you read, watch and what you’re interested in - briefly and emotionally. And don't forget to do it.

And forget about the question “What are you doing?” every two hours. For the most part, it is annoying and distracting.

How to attract attention on VKontakte and other social networks

Everything must be correct, polite and measured. There is no need to stand out from other users and focus on the fact that “I’m his girlfriend.”

Before you attract attention, take a look at the young man's page. There you can find a lot of interesting information about him:

• contacts;
• hobby;
• attitude towards bad habits;
• Does your “victim” go in for sports, and if so, what kind;
• place of work;
• where did you study;
• circle of friends;
• list with music;
• videos;
• Pictures;
• statuses.

If you find a guy on VKontakte, be sure to pay attention to what groups the young man is a member of.

If you are embarrassed to write a personal message on the Internet, when commenting on the photo is open, leave your opinion about the guy. At the same time, try not to compliment him at first, but tell him what a beautiful background, for example: “This is an amazingly beautiful place, I would also take a photo in this, but I’m afraid that I won’t turn out as good as you.”

Another working way on VK and not only is to ask a guy for help (suitable if you have common interests). For example, you have a bicycle that is broken and want to know where it can be repaired inexpensively and efficiently. An adequate person will calmly answer you, but he will be surprised, because not many girls travel on such transport.

Under no circumstances should you write the following phrases:

• I’m bored, you don’t know how to cheer me up;
• all men are bad, and you are like that too;
• Hi, how are you;
• hello, let's get acquainted and similar words;
• and you’re handsome, you probably have a lot of fans;
• Well, what does a guy like you need on social networks.

Everyone makes a list of template phrases for themselves. 90-95% of girls ask them, and what do you think, will you be lucky to get an answer? Of course, if the young man is not banal, then no!

Before asking any questions, study a little male psychology, look at the photo from the page, pay attention to what the man is wearing. If he is wearing an elegant suit, you can address him as “you,” and on the contrary, if he is wearing informal clothes, then “you” would be more appropriate. By the way, the word “You” makes it clear that you are keeping the person at a distance, which means that your interlocutor will try to correct this, and no one wants to feel older.

If we are talking about the social network VKontakte, advice on how to please a guy on VK will help you. You will need to study the manners of a real lady, choose appropriate phrases and learn how to give compliments.

Specific examples of communication

Often girls are interested in how to meet a guy on VKontakte or other social networks. The first step is always difficult to take. So try to put yourself in the man’s shoes. Think about how and what he will react to, what kind of girl he will meet. What do guys usually write in private messages on VK? Mostly they send greetings and invite you to get to know each other. What to do with such messages? They are either not read or are blacklisted. You can find a lot of bored guys on the Internet; you don’t want to waste time and mood on everyone.

Men are also not interested in the same type of messages from obsessive fans. How to start a correspondence correctly so that a guy gets to know you and continues communication?

You can meet guys like this:

"Hello Alexander! I came across your page through a mutual friend. I see that you are also interested in archaeology. Can you share your impressions of your latest forays? I’m currently writing a scientific study and it would be interesting to refer to your stories.”

The most important thing is that you should not be afraid and lie. As for common interests, they must exist. Otherwise, you won’t be able to maintain a conversation on Odnoklassniki. You need to avoid the word “let’s get acquainted”; this can be perceived as intrusiveness.

How to ignore to attract attention: male psychology

Attracting the attention of a young man by moving away from him is possible only after prolonged communication. If you suddenly disappear, the man will try to figure out what he did wrong. You will occupy a central place in his thoughts. You cannot predict in advance how long you should ignore a new acquaintance.

Every man is different, so your friend's reaction may not be what most would react to in a similar situation. Have you communicated with your chosen one for a very short time? Then you shouldn't use this method. Most likely, the guy will simply forget about you and find another interlocutor in your absence.

There are general rules, following which you can catch the attention of a young man:

• Threads of control. You should not disappear without a trace, you need to control your chosen one, periodically appearing on the horizon. But in this case, the effect can be achieved only if the man has a fear of loneliness.
• Your behavior is a game. Don't try to take things seriously, it may have the opposite effect. Just respond to messages less often, and the results will follow.
• Don't overdo it. You may get too carried away by what is happening, disappearing from the man’s sight for a long time. In this case, he will rather forget about you than start thinking more often.

Ignoring does not always lead to a good result. In some cases, a man simply wants to achieve the affection of a distant woman. He will not feel love, he will become obsessed with his goal. If you notice something similar about your chosen one, you should not continue the relationship. They won't end in marriage.

Rule No. 8 Regularity, boundaries, familiarity

Make sure that your communication did not begin solely on your behalf. Understand that if a man doesn’t want to write himself, he’s no longer interested in you.

Therefore, keep track of the mode in which you respond to each other. Ideally, he writes and you write. Keep track of how long it takes for him to respond to a message: instantly, during the day or once a week. This also says a lot.

Now about the framework.

Long gone are the days when the topic of sex was taboo. And even at the stage of correspondence, you can talk about your preferences, but if a man starts communication with this - .

If it goes beyond what is permitted, the same thing can be said in completely different ways, and if a man writes: “Kisa, I want to lick your socks,” he is inadequate. Finish the correspondence.

And if he talks, for example, about his sexual temperament in the spirit: “I would like to know. I love to dominate. Tell me about what you like." — you can also briefly describe and track the reaction.

A worthy man will always appreciate how calmly, gently and femininely you either move away from the topic or answer such a question frankly.

In general, pay attention to such things - it will help you avoid an unpleasant aftertaste from correspondence with preoccupied people, gigolos, beggars, etc.

Psychological techniques

To achieve the emergence of “rapport” (trust that appears between people who are similar to each other), you need to apply several effective techniques:

• Mention more often what connects you with each other (common place of residence, similar interests, same tastes in clothing);
• if you haven’t found common ground, mirror the man’s movements (position of arms and legs, gestures). Do this carefully and unobtrusively, otherwise the young man will notice that you are trying to repeat his actions;
• use the technique of joining, agreeing with the opinion of the interlocutor.

Remember that in correspondence or during a real meeting you need to behave in a certain way:

• do not tell all the details of your life, keep things understated so that the man will be more interested;
• monitor the impression your messages made; you may need to change the topic to continue the dialogue;
• during live communication, watch your friend’s eyes and breathing; by the interlocutor’s behavior you can track his interest;
• learn to listen, let the man express his opinion more often;
• Try to behave naturally to avoid awkward situations in the future.

If you have achieved the result you want, you can secure it using “anchoring” by touching any place on the man’s body when he is happy. By doing this several times, you will subconsciously convince the young man that only positive emotions associate him with you.

Rule No. 5 Problem girl

Even the most confidential dialogue can be ruined once or twice, and then complain “ah!”

Body language doesn’t work in correspondence, so even the interlocutor won’t be able to easily recognize irony if you don’t put a smiley face at the end.

At the correspondence stage, problems can only have one character: “Listen, but you don’t know

The same goes for your shortcomings. There is a category of women who really like to focus attention on them in the spirit of: “Yes, that’s who I am!”

How to attract a man according to your horoscope?

Knowing about the preferences and psychological characteristics of her chosen one, a woman has a greater chance of receiving an offer from him:

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They say that a woman should not take the initiative. This is partly true, because every man is a hunter by nature. But on the other hand, this does not mean at all that you need to humbly sit and wait for attention to be paid to you. A wise woman always knows how to interest a man. Today these secrets will be revealed to you too.