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Why do you need male attention?

Almost every woman dresses, puts on makeup, and does her hair for a reason, but for someone. After all, you want someone to like you, to be loved and desired. There is an opinion that the male gaze is necessary as a breath of fresh air. This is why women always want to keep themselves in shape.

A man's gaze gives energy to the weaker sex. Scientists have proven that when a man shows signs of attention towards a girl, endorphin appears in her body, which is regarded as a hormone of happiness. This gives the weaker sex a lot of strength, vitality and good mood.

Interest in a guy when communicating on social networks

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In this case, we will talk about how to find out from correspondence on VK and other social networks that a girl likes you. It’s quite difficult to determine a woman’s sympathy from a distance. However, there are several signs that will help you create at least a rough picture and determine how interested your interlocutor is in you.

Even if the woman is older than you, psychologists say that her experience and wisdom will not hide nonverbal manifestations of sympathy. Communication on social networks makes it much more difficult to understand these moments, but you can still understand a girl’s sympathy based on some signs:

she monitors the Internet page and posts on it;
likes photos and notes;
reads public pages and blogs like a man;
posts news and notes on the page demonstrating similar interests with a man;
corresponds in messages, asks for help, seeks communication in every possible way;
comments on posts, jokes, flirts.

In any discussions and debates, she will always take the man’s side, even if her opinion may differ somewhat from his point of view. After meeting the object of her affection, she can often post photos of herself from better angles to demonstrate her advantages.

Standard signs of attention from a man to a girl

Each person, be it a man or a woman, has his own individual character. One can show attention actively, speak everything directly and frankly. The other behaves more passively, fearing for the words spoken. However, all men are capable of giving compliments. Women love with their ears, and most representatives of the stronger sex know this.

Men give flowers. This is standard courtship that will not leave any woman indifferent. However, before you give a bouquet, find out what flowers the girl likes.

Many men give gifts, because it’s no secret that girls love surprises. This could be jewelry, soft toys, candy.

Many men give perfumes or cosmetics. However, do not forget that it is better for a girl to choose these things herself. Before you give them, you must be sure that they are suitable for the lady.

If you want a girl to remember you from time to time, give her an indoor flower. This is a great gift. When she waters it and takes care of it, she will always remember you. Beautiful paintings or figurines will regularly remind the girl of your relationship.

It is not necessary to show your attention with expensive gifts, an invitation to a movie or a restaurant. Many women don't need this. Respect her and she will give you the same respect.

3- She is never busy for you

This is the most important rule: if a woman is interested in going on a date with you, she will free herself from all her affairs. This means that she will give you her work phone number or email address, she will promptly answer or call you back, and accept your invitation to go out together, and if she actually has something planned on the day you set, she will respond something like: “I can’t do this Saturday, but I’m free next Saturday if you don’t mind.”

From a girl who is interested in you, you will never hear phrases like “I’m very busy right now” or “Let me check my schedule” or “I just broke up with my boyfriend, so I don’t want to start a new relationship right now.” Even if she is currently dating someone, she will still try to keep the possibility of future contact open.

Does a woman always need compliments?

Girls like beautiful words. However, do not forget that they must be from the heart. A woman feels flattery immediately.

For a girl, a person’s attitude towards her is very important. A woman loves compliments, but she must see sincerity in your eyes. Even in intonation, a lady is able to sense falsehood.

Creativity in compliments is very important for a girl. Tell her about her hairstyle or dress. A girl will be pleased with such a compliment, because she tried to create her image for your sake.

How to correctly interpret and use signals?

So, if, let’s say, everything was going well, but suddenly the girl stopped responding to the conversation, therefore, she was bored and should change the topic;
If she begins to cross her arms or put her purse in front of her, you should moderate your ardor a little; she begins to defend herself from aggression or disagrees with something;
If a girl plays with her curls or accessories, you can carefully, as if by accident, straighten her hair or some item of clothing. This gesture will only bring the couple closer and will be quite appropriate, because the girl is ready and demonstrates it;
You can respond to stroking objects by asking the girl to dance so that there is the possibility of physical contact. There will be no 100% refusal;
You would have to be a fool not to respond to the call of her lips, which she shows through biting, and kiss them.

So some secrets have been discovered, with the help of which you can not only discover female sympathy, but also correctly respond to the calls that a girl consciously or unconsciously makes.

Original signs of attention

If you want to give a gift to a girl, then make it unusual. Originality is the first thing you can do to surprise your loved one.

Give her a surprise. If a girl likes practical gifts, then the present can be related to household appliances. Of course, first it is advisable to find out what exactly your beloved wants. Her friends will be happy to tell you.

As a rule, many men invite the girl they like on a date to a cafe or restaurant. You can make the date unusual. For example, invite her to the theater or the circus. Perhaps your loved one will like an amusement park. Even adults love to have fun like children.

Almost every person will enjoy boating or motorboating. Invite the girl to spend her leisure time on the water. Take provisions with you and set sail. After such a walk you feel tired, but it is very pleasant. Such entertainment will raise you in the eyes of your beloved.

Serenades under the window used to be in fashion. Why not take advantage of the hint from the past? After all, at that time men knew how to surprise and conquer women! Come with a guitar and sing a heart-warming song under the window. Few will remain indifferent after the serenade.

Write a poem for your beloved. Girls like such original signs of attention. After all, it’s not every day that poems are written in her honor.

Remain attentive to your chosen one at any time. Try not to push her away, help her in everything, support her. Make your chosen one's life varied. A man who shows original signs of attention has a better chance of winning a lady.

Nonverbal signs

Nonverbalism includes gestures, facial expressions, intonation, body language, that is, everything except direct communication and speech. Girls usually involuntarily show their sympathy for a guy through non-verbal signs. So, how can you tell if a girl likes you?

By look

If a girl likes you, then her gaze will linger on you for 2-3 seconds or longer, and she will also glance at you often. Look out for the following signs.

When talking to you, her pupils dilate. Although this can be difficult to notice.
As soon as you look at her, she quickly looks down and to the side. But within 45 seconds his gaze returns to you again. This is how young ladies usually behave when they get excited at the sight of a guy they like.
The girl looks at you without looking away for 6 seconds or longer. And if her gaze stops at your chest or crotch, then everything is clear. She probably wouldn't mind having sex with you. Mature and experienced women allow themselves to behave this way.

If during a conversation a girl does not take her eyes off you, this does not mean that she is crazy about you. Perhaps she herself is very sociable and is used to always making eye contact with the interlocutor. But if she continues to maintain eye contact with you, even when you are silent, then you can already suspect sympathy.

A flirting girl loves to play with her hair. She can coquettishly stroke her hair, throw it back, showing off her neck and chest, straighten her bangs, twirl a curl around her finger or a pencil if it’s happening at school.

Also, when communicating with a young lady, pay attention to her lips. If she likes you, then most likely she will subtly bite her lower lip, smile sweetly, and touch her lips as if trying to fix her makeup. Particularly bold seductresses can seductively put on lipstick or even openly lick them while communicating with an attractive man. Just don’t immediately behave cheekily and hint, for example, at a blowjob - there will clearly be no continuation after that.

A young lady, in the presence of a guy she likes, may instinctively fiddle with her jewelry (rings, bracelet, chain). This happens because she is worried. However, experienced women use this technique to seduce a man. By stroking a necklace or earrings, she thus draws attention to the hollow of her chest or her bare neck. At the same time, the stranger will look straight into your eyes. This is a direct signal to action, to the fact that you can make an acquaintance.

By body language

A girl is interested in you if during a conversation she:

turns in your direction;
tries to reduce the distance between you;
tries to lightly touch you as if by accident, fleetingly;
involuntarily repeats your actions and gestures (“mirroring”);
the toes of her shoes are pointed in your direction;
she tries to keep her back straight, since a straight and even posture favorably emphasizes her chest.

However, remember that modest and shy girls get very nervous when communicating with a handsome guy and begin to “get tight.” Therefore, the above signs cannot be detected. You will have to show delicacy, calm the girl down or cheer her up and wait until she feels relaxed in your presence.

If a girl deliberately closes herself when talking to you, crossing her arms or legs, then she simply makes it clear that she is not interested in further communication. It is unlikely that you will be able to seduce her.

A little about obsession

Very often, signs of attention from a man are too intrusive. This can irritate a girl.

Rule 1: Check your privileges (and status)

Yes, in the 20th century, teachers often married their students, and many happy married couples were born at a fun corporate party. Relationships at work and at university are still appropriate today - unless one of their participants is a direct subordinate of the other.

In the “boss-subordinate” and “professor-student” relationships, the main problem is immediately visible - an imbalance of power. Teachers give grades, the defense of diplomas, reputation in the university and professional environment depend on them. And the boss directly influences the well-being of his subordinate.

If a student is in a relationship with a teacher and gets good grades, she begins to wonder whether they are deserved, and her classmates are even more suspicious of her. If the grades are not very good, this can ruin the relationship. In addition, problems may arise after a breakup. Seeing your ex-partner all the time can be difficult, and in this case, he also has more power.

Finally, the teacher himself can never know whether he was truly reciprocated. Perhaps the student is afraid to say “no” to an adult and a person of status. Or he just wants to receive “bonuses” from this relationship. The same applies to the romance of a boss/supervisor with his subordinates.

At the same time, people can still sincerely fall in love with their teachers and bosses (and vice versa). What to do in such a situation?

First, you need to sort out your feelings and decide whether they are worth quitting or transferring to another university. And if the answer is yes, do so, and then show any signs of attention.

Changes in appearance

Regardless of her self-esteem and self-confidence, every woman wants to look charming for her man. If a girl changed her wardrobe, started using cosmetics and taking care of herself, then this is the main sign that she is interested.

This is easiest to notice if the guy studies or works with a young lady. Before you take action, it is worth checking that she is not showing sympathy for someone else. In this case, the recommendations described above will help.

It's worth complimenting the lady and seeing how she reacts. If she likes a man, she will blush or lower her eyes flirtatiously, thanking him for his kind words. The changes will not necessarily be global. Even if the girl looked great before the appearance of sympathy, she will try to add even more zest to her image (for example, she will start using a brighter shade of lipstick or will paint her eyes more expressively).

Even if a man does not communicate with a woman for some reason or circumstance, she can show keen interest in him in every possible way. Another pronounced indicator of falling in love is a change of image, external transformations. Many girls tend to devote more time to makeup, hairstyle, and selection of outfits if she wants to win the heart of a man.

Important! Perfume is another tool in a girl’s hands to attract a man to her. When you meet her, she will smell pleasant and much stronger with an attractive aroma, demonstrating her inner charm and charm.

During sympathy, she becomes more confident in herself, this can be seen even in her posture. When meeting a man, she will demonstrate her beauty to him in every possible way, using cutouts in clothes, the desired length of a skirt, heels, and jewelry. Many people experience dramatic changes in their image, for example, changing hair color or length, or using bright cosmetics.