Who are these assholes?
Initially, the word “ mude ” in Russia did not have a negative . It was used to refer to the testicles (male testicles) . But when Russia became Christian and everything related to intimate organs became a taboo , all the words that denoted them became forbidden and indecent. So the “ mude ” suffered the same fate.
There is another version of the origin of this word. In the Old Russian language there was once a verb “ mudit ”, that is, “ to dig ”, “ to procrastinate ”. If we assume that the two concepts of "mude" and "mud" are merged together, you can get a person who, instead of doing business, scratches his testicles.
Have you ever met assholes and how did they show themselves?
How rallies in support of Khabarovsk were held in Russian cities // SIA-PRESS REVIEW
The day before, rallies in support of Khabarovsk were held in Russian cities. Residents of Moscow, Vladivostok, Surgut and many other cities joined the protests. About how it was - in the review of a siapress.ru correspondent.
Khabarovsk
In Khabarovsk, rallies have been going on for more than two weeks. Local residents chanted slogans “I/We are Furgal”, “20 years of no trust!”, “I, we, he, she - the whole country is for Furgal!”, “Honest trial in Khabarovsk!”, “As long as we are united, we are invincible !” “This is our land”, as well as “Down with the Tsar”, “Russia, wake up”, “Putin resign” and “Freedom for Furgal!”
In addition, the protesters began to demand the resignation of acting governor Mikhail Degtyarev : “Suitcase - station - Samara,” “Degtyarev, go away.”
According to estimates from the Kommersant publication, over 50 thousand residents came out to protest. City authorities reported only 9,000 dissatisfied citizens. According to various sources, on July 25, from 20 to 100 Khabarovsk residents went on strike. According to the OVD-Info portal, only three people were detained in this city after the rallies.
Moscow
In the capital, rallies took place in different parts of the city - on Pushkinskaya Square, in the area of the monument to Yuri Dolgoruky, and also near the Bolshoy Ustinsky Bridge, where two young guys tried to hang a banner in support of Khabarovsk residents.
Muscovites came to the square to feed the pigeons and read Pushkin’s poems. One of the activists was caught - she was reading an excerpt from the poem “To Chaadaev.”
Two people who did not consider themselves to be protesters also came under attack - they came in bright suits to Red Square, where they were detained. As the townspeople told the OVD-info portal, they just wanted to give people joy.
In total, about 14 Muscovites were caught during the day.
Surgut
In Surgut, eight local residents staged a single picket in different parts of the city. They held posters with the words “No to lawlessness! Freedom for Sergei Furgal ”, “Khabarovsk, Surgut is with you”, “I support the demand of Khabarovsk residents: amnesty for political prisoners.”
As a result of this action, two elderly women were detained when they were already getting ready to go home. They were accused of violating self-isolation and taken to the first police station. Sources in law enforcement agencies told a SIA-PRESS correspondent about this.
Vladivostok
The number of protesters in Vladivostok, according to Komsomolskaya Pravda, is about 200 people. They staged a procession in the square, demanding a fair trial in Khabarovsk for the former governor. Law enforcement officers managed to detain several activists for violating the rules of participation in a public event. Some people at the police station had their posters taken away from them.
Novosibirsk
Novosibirsk residents did not stand aside. About 20 people gathered for a “feeding the pigeons” rally without slogans or posters. The townspeople were simply discussing among themselves what was happening in Khabarovsk now. Previously, activists invited fellow citizens to feed the birds at a certain time to express solidarity.
There is no information about arrests.
Krasnodar
The exact number of people who attended the rally in Krasnodar is unknown. Citizens marched along the streets with the Soviet flag, chanting “Krasnodar, come out.” On the T-shirt of one of the protest participants was the inscription “Khabarovsk, Krasnodar is with you.”
In total, the police detained seven people, four of them had to spend the night at the station so that they could be taken to court today.
Tver
One local resident came out with a poster in support of Furgal: “For a fair trial, for the change of power. Khabarovsk is not alone.” However, according to OVD-info, a police officer soon approached the man and explained that protests in the city during self-isolation are prohibited.
Omsk
Residents of Omsk staged three protests at once last Saturday. They staged a procession, chanting: “Khabarovsk, we are with you!”, “Omsk, become Khabarovsk!” According to the estimates of the BK55 publication, more than a hundred citizens supported Sergei Furgal on that day. The police were also present at the event, but local residents responded to the officers: “We are the authorities here!” The number of detainees is unknown.
Komsomolsk-on-Amur
The mayor of the city and the chairman of the city duma supported the protesters:
“You are great. <…> The Far East has never seen anything like this,” Zhornik said in the video, addressing the rally participants. “Everyone can hear you, all of Russia can hear you. Each of you who is here now can erect a monument during your lifetime for the fact that you are so united. You are great,” writes RBC, citing the words of deputy Vladimir Ginzburg .
Let us note that the number of people who attended rallies in this city, as well as the number of those detained, are not reported.
In total, about 78 protesters in support of Khabarovsk and the former governor were detained in the cities. Some of them had already been released by the time the material was published.
Opinions are divided about what will happen next to this movement. Thus, according to Ural political scientist Mikhail Korobelnikov, citizens’ discontent will go into “hidden” mode:
“While these protests are more emotional, there has been a surge that has affected several cities. But whether this movement will become all-Russian is highly doubtful. Discontent is growing, but can it spill over into mass rallies? I admit that this will lead to hidden discontent,” says Korobelnikov.
However, some of his colleagues think differently. Considering how many large cities have already supported Khabarovsk, some political scientists already consider the movement to be all-Russian:
“These actions have already reached a national scale. They, of course, have not received the same scope as in Vladivostok and Komsomolsk, but they are everywhere in other cities,” comments Konstantin Kiselev.
Why do people become assholes?
There are many reasons for this - an unsuccessful period in life, upbringing, and other problems . But most often, of course, it’s the parents’ fault . Excessive guardianship over a child, permissiveness, “I’ll tear everyone up for my beloved child,” and so on, provokes the emergence of qualities that are inherent in an asshole.
A spoiled ill-mannered child is a likely asshole in the future
Having matured, he begins to believe that everyone around him should work, except him , that he owes nothing to anyone and, in general, can do whatever his heart desires, because he will never be punished for anything.
How to recognize an asshole?
So, how to recognize an asshole and remove him from your life in time? Here are their distinguishing features:
- They never ask for forgiveness , even if they are entirely to blame. They will blame everything on other people and will have no remorse.
- They lie all the time. Honesty is not an option for assholes at all; they lie about small things and big ones.
- They have a huge ego . They are sure that the whole world revolves only around them, they are smarter and better than everyone else.
- They judge others all the time . These people don’t even need a reason for slander; they criticize and judge everyone around them, express their dissatisfaction with any reason, and constantly put a spoke in the wheels of those around them.
- Excellent manipulators . They can easily push others to do what is in the asshole's best interests. Assholes put pressure, blackmail, force, give ultimatums, manipulate emotions, and so on. Under the mask of an asshole, there may well be a psychological sadist or sociopath hiding.
How to suppress grievances and save your family?
Good day, dear psychologists! My name is Dana, 25 years old. A month ago I gave birth to a child. Married for less than a year, before marriage we dated my husband for about 3 months. My husband (30 years old) is a very good person and I love him. The problem is that I currently want to divorce him due to feelings of resentment. The resentment against him arose because I expected that after giving birth he would show me his care and help me recover during the postpartum period. However, I only now noticed selfishness in him, since he, being the head of his company, began to stay late at work, and in his free time he goes to the gym, swimming pool, and football. The most offensive thing is that he has no idea that I need his support, for him to be there at the moment, not to mention help. By nature, he is very clean and is depressed by disorder, dirt, etc. For this reason, he does not want to be at home, in addition to these circumstances, there is a baby crying day and night. It so happened that we moved into a new, unfurnished apartment the day before I gave birth. After being discharged from the maternity hospital, the baby and I had and still don’t have peace. Every day in our house, the final renovation work was carried out by builders, furniture makers and my husband’s father or sister, who controlled these processes. In this regard, for me, work was added in the form of cleaning and cleaning the house after work, washing, ironing the clothes of the baby and my husband, and preparing a variety of food (first, second) so that I could feed my husband and his family. And most importantly, I didn’t even have time to drink tea, not to mention broth and daytime sleep, to compensate for sleepless nights. This part was described to convey my physical tiredness. Psychological stress was added to this, as my husband’s father and his sisters began to show me their hostility, since I wanted my mother to come every day and bathe my daughter until she was forty days old. I didn’t want to entrust the child to the wife of my husband’s father, since she did not have such experience. Nevertheless, for the sake of my husband, I agreed that she should bathe the child every other day and learn how to do it. but the tension in family relations never subsided. It seems to me that they are complaining to my husband about me. Although he supported me in this matter, the daily visits of his relatives are already annoying me. Every evening I feed them dinner and sit there serving tea, although I want to take a nap at least a little at this time. I also found out that he gave his nephew an expensive phone. This hurt me, because he hid it from me, just as he hides the fact that he constantly transfers large sums to his parents and sisters. And I always deprived myself, trying to save the family budget. In general, I realized that there are “too many” of his relatives in our family. I want to go to my parents and just be in peace and quiet, restore my body, because I feel completely exhausted... but I think it would be stupid to destroy the family. The daily growing resentment towards my husband turns the care and love that I previously showed in the form of preparing his favorite dishes, clean and ironed clothes into burdensome obligations. His words of gratitude, love, hugs and kisses no longer touch or inspire me as before. I feel sorry for myself and don’t know how to change the situation.
